We all hear about the citation “you are the average of the 5 people you spend most time with”.
But the opposite is true and we never really talk about it.
The mere fact that we exist in the life of our close friends and relatives, show that they care about us. About who we are, what we do, and what are values are.
When thought in this way, our behaviour, our words become powerful, even more than we could ever think.
They listen to us, they observe what we do, they get inspired by what become. Or the opposite.
Our words and behavior will influence our friends and relatives to do some good, or some evil. Some of our words can have life changing impact.
And with love, kindness, and care, we can make beautiful things happen.
When we choose to care enough to say the right words, we can support our surrounding in achieving amazing things, and become the best version of themselves.
Bit by bit, month by month, year by year, we will be part of the change of course in their life.
It is hence a big responsibility to be a friend, a parent, a manager or a leader.
Do you want to be responsible for pushing them into an abyss, or be there for them so they become the best version of themselves?
You are 1 of the 5 people in their lives that actually matter.